Hoping I can get some advice, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for over a year now, and every other aspect of our relationship is dead on, we click almost on every level. That being said, there is one aspect of our relationship we don’t have, a sex life. Mostly its just kissing and cuddling. We are both19 years old, and we are both still a virgin. I have been talking to her about this, though I haven’t been pressuring her, but in not in this relationship for sex. It’s been over a year now and the real problem is she wont talk to me about sex. i love her and will respect her either way. When we talk about having sex, she doesn’t seem to give me any answer why she doesn’t want it herself. she sits there as if i didnt even say anthing about it. I am not sure if its just us being virgins and she’s scared, or if there simply is no sex drive (limbido) there. A few times when we have been making out I’ve tried to innocently see if I could advance a little, she lets me put my hand down her pants and finger her. it doesnt seem to effect her in any way. when i do it, she lays there like nothing is happening but shes so wet all the time. I ask her if she likes it, but i get no response. I’ve been sitting on the side lines for more than a year now hoping she’d get more confortable and curious and want to engage in sex, but that doesn’t seem to be working, is there anything I can do to help our relationship develop a healthy sex life?

I hate everything about my life. I am 28 years old and the only thing coming my way is the untimely death of my dear wife. In college I was stupid enough to listen to a professor who gave me the advice to study what I most enjoyed, and ended up getting a BA in psychology. Having not known the fact that in order to work in the field I would need at least a Masters I have held mainly HR related jobs or accounting.

I currently work as an underpaid, unappreciated office manager for a small company and every day I wake up I despise my life. I drive 45 minutes to work for 13 dollars an hour doing essentially 3 peoples’ jobs for a micromanaging, evil boss devoid of all empathy and appreciation. I haven’t had a raise in 2 years and my boss just barks “the economy is bad whaddya want.” In addition to this he is uneducated for the most part and came into money through inheritance so I have to proofread all his e-mails, letters and basically any correspondence. I even have to sit in on meetings to better describe our needs to vendors and contractors even though none of this was in the job description.

My family thinks I am a failure and constantly ridicule me at social gatherings for not having a “career.” I have looked for work everywhere you can think of and can’t seem to find a decent offer anywhere.

My wife, a strong minded, humorous, beautiful and witty intellectual woman who works as a museum curator with a degree in history. I enjoyed 3 sweet years of marriage with her and endured everything until I got the news that she discovered her mother had not died of simply cancer, but huntingtons. This is a dominant gene so there was a 50% chance of her receiving the gene, and being that we were planning on having a family we decided to have genetic testing.

Needless to say she was positive (of course, why would anything go right in my life anyway?) and she has gone into a state of deep depression. I try to be strong for her but with onset so close at hand as far as age it is difficult. I have locked each and every negative emotion deep within me so as to keep her preoccupied and happy but it is growing so intense I feel as if I am about to physically combust. I know it is not healthy to do so but I cannot bring myself to talk to anyone about my feelings of self hatred and helplessness. I realize my condition but cannot change it. When my wife passes away I have no plans on continuing this plight. I will have nothing left but a life a despair and agony and suffering. Why has God cursed me with such a terrible life WHY

I’ve recently been trying to be healthy. Diet, exercise, etc. Because of this, I’ve been seeing a whole bunch of Gluten Free foods lately. Is that something I should be interested in? Why is it so important to be Gluten Free? I see SO MANY foods like that nowadays.

I asked this once before & got 2 answers referring me to low-cost health care.
I only make $420 per month & if it wasn’t for my partner I’d be homeless, so please don’t refer me to any health care programs.
I have read that I should have a high-fiber diet–am doing that.
But what I want to know are other specifics: Should I eat less meals, smaller meals, which foods to avoid, etc.?
My partner makes too much $$ for me to qualify at the low-cost clinic–already checked that one out.
Also, for women: Do you feel it hurts after having intercourse? Or is this just my imagination?

I really don’t want to retake it. The reason why I’m failing is because I’m in a class with people who are very rude, and as punishment the teacher made us all do a 5 paragraph essay over the weekend. I forgot to do it and she said it was a test grade, and because of that I now have a zero in that class. She never said it was a test grade before! I know this is my fault and everything but everyone forgets sometimes. The teacher said I can talk to my guidance counselor and switch out of that class but even if I do then will that F follow me to my new health class? And if I don’t switch classes, then is there any way my guidance counselor can bring my grade up? I shouldn’t have to retake such an easy class because of my forgetfulness and the people around me that are holding me back.

Me and my mom are both worried. I am only 14 and he is a senior in high school (18 years old) but I still want him to stop.. His friends got him to do it and they’re all addicted. Some already dropped out of school and they’re really stupid.. My mom is very disappointed in him and she’s worried that he won’t be able to get into a good college. Up until this year, he was getting only A’s and B’s . His grade in calculus has now dropped to an F. and he doesn’t care.. he says it’s too hard and that it’s his final year in high school so it doesn’t matter. but it does!!! the college he wanted to go to said he is good enough to get in (and this was a couple of months ago before he started) but they told my mom they will have to look at his final grades before they decide. so he probably won’t be accepted. My mom has talked to him multiple times and tried getting him to stop but he says he’s not addicted and that he won’t die so it’s not bad. I learned in health that marijuana causes something called “amotivational syndrome” I think… but anyway, it basically makes the person smoking stop caring about things like school, which is why a lot of kids who are addicted get bad grades. we really don’t have money for therapy or anything and my parents were really hoping that he got a scholarship but by the looks of it that’s definitely not happening.. : I want to help him! Can someone pleasee give me some advice?

btw, he skipped school today and he was just smoking with his friend.

and yes, I’m not at school but it’s because I didn’t feel good.

anyway, I would really appreciate any advice. Thank you

Im almost 15. Im 97 pounds and 5 ft 7. I eat normal amounts of food and am healthy. Why do people keep saying its sick how skinny I am? I dont know how I feel about it.

I was in Hawaii for vacation and I was feeling really weird. I was before I left too but I assumed it was just stress caused my the travel plans. I did think that i might be pregnant but I was distracted by the trip so I brushed it off. I knew that it was a good posibility because I had unprotected sex about 2-3 weeks before. I was in Hawaii for 3 weeks. I was getting easily motion sick, bad cramps, head aches, exhausted, not hungry, very emotional, constipated, all of the symptoms were there. But I was with a big group of people and I didnt want to take a test. I accepted the fact that I was pregnant but was determined to enjoy my vacation. I started bleeding a few days later, then i became concerned. I bled for 2 weeks it was nothing like my periods normally are. usually i bleed every 28 days for 3 days and its light. This was over 2 weeks, heavy flow, felt sick, cramps. Finally I took a test and it was negative. When I got home i went to the doctor and they said I was not pregnant. But i had gained a lot of weight so it may have been a miscarrige or my BC pill was wrong for me (I have been on this pill for 1 year). I am almost positive that i miscarried but i would like another opinion. Also keep in mind that I was hiking 5 to 10 miles a day while I was in hawaii and I was not eating healthy or sleeping well, I was also very dehydrated and stressed.

They end up saying things like “Well if you want to be anorexic that’s on you.” in a snide manner.

I tell them though that by “diet” I mean eating healthy, but they still reply with snide remarks.

I’m really small 4 foot 10
Waist size is 32
hip size is 34
Is this fat?
Ps:it says my BMI is healthy but my waist is huge