Hi, I am a 21 year old gentleman and I only had 2 girlfriends in my life (yes thats right 2) Sometimes, I ask myself if I am too much of a nice guy in relationships. My qualities are… – Gentleman (hold doors, pull out chair, respecting my elders, and compliment everyday) – hopeless romantic – faithful -athletic -non clingy – Latino mocha skin -slim and slender – always keeps promises – going to college full time to be an elementary school teacher -have a part time job – volunteer for autism classroom teachers aid and charities -talented (singing, songwriting, comedian, and dancer) – always giving -told i am cute hundreds of time (not bragging, Id like to post a pic) – abstinent till marriage – innocent -childish and full of energy – A+ student -religious -always positive on life I have been told by lots of my guy friends that girls don’t like that and prefer jerks and A**holes which i really hate because they can’t treat women right. I am a very shy young man that I stutter, blush, and “choke up” when I talk to girls and I hate it. I tried everything to be more confident but it seemed like I don’t deserve to be confident. I even tried to be a “bad boy” myself for a week but I didn’t like it because it felt strange, I don’t want to hurt people’s feelings and disrespect my elders, and don’t want to be a hypocrite. Ladies, Would you ever date a nice guy like myself or do i need to change all that? My biggest fear is dying alone It hurts me inside that I have feelings of being useless, fearing depression, and no reason to love or live for anybody. Has God destined for me to die alone? what should i do? It hurts!