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[ Psychology ] Open Question : how can I gain confidence =/?

Well I sort of have some confidence. A lot of people say I’m pretty and some strangers even tell me I’m beautiful. And when I look in the mirror I don’t really think bad things. But regardless of all of the compliments I receive, I still don’t think I’m pretty. Sometimes when I look at pictures of myself, I feel like I’m ugly, and then I point out alllll of my imperfections, then search on ways I can change them. An imperfection that I’m insecure about is my nose – I feel as though at a certain position, it looks big and long. I’m also debating getting rhinoplasty when I grow older. I still like to take pictures, but I don’t even take pictures of myself anymore – I haven’t had a new facebook profile picture in forever, and on my tumblr I use my old pictures. Before it wasn’t that bad, but now it’s starting to become worse. That’s why I’m asking this now, before I get terrible, ESPECIALLY since I’m about to enter college. I think one source of my insecurity is tumblr, because I see gorgeous girls all the time on there. But I’m in love with tumblr lol. Help?

[ Other - Society & Culture ] Open Question : Best way to survive night shift?

I work security at a small hotel and I am the only officer on post. There is only one employee from the hotel working so there is nobody really to converse with, lol. I have a lot of down time because I’m working clear through the night from night till morning so everyone is pretty much asleep. Yesterday was my first night and I found it hard for me to stay awake. And tips? haha